How to be Certain

“Are you sure?” That is the line friends usually hit you with before you make a big decision. I don’t know about you, but that line is pretty effective in testing my certainty. Sometimes, it will not even phase me and that is how I will know the strength of the conviction behind my decision.… Continue reading How to be Certain


Gym and Lattes

One morning my husband came home from work and surprised me with a piece of paper — a gym membership. I had been thinking about getting back into dancing, which meant I should start conditioning, which naturally led me to consider getting a gym membership. Still, I found myself surprised, or rather, shocked in that moment… Continue reading Gym and Lattes

2 Things To Do When There Isn’t Enough Time

As a newlywed the number one question I get asked is, “How’s the married life?”, and I often hesitate before I reply. Now, it is not that married life is not great. It is also not because I am having doubts. Mostly, it is because I pause to think about how it feels like my… Continue reading 2 Things To Do When There Isn’t Enough Time

Surprises Are My Bestfriends

Surprises: They can be startling or amusing, and worthy of tears or laughter. The thing about surprises is that they are dependent on catching someone unaware. It is not a surprise if someone sees it coming, right? I am not good with surprises. Why? I almost always see them coming. Some might describe this as being perceptive, others as having trust issues. Honestly, it is probably both.